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PostSubject: Police are so useless in the state of PA!!   Wed Apr 21, 2010 11:44 pm

I just feel like breaking down crying...I feel so alone right now, I need this vacation but I can't go until mid may now because my friends mom has to go help a friend who has cancer. Its just so stressful, I am trying to be strong but this month has been pure hell, no matter what good I think...I get bad. How long until I have a breakdown?

Well we got more threats...my mom found out about them from my ex and she went to the police. State police and they are so USELESS its frustrating. I explain the story to them, which consisted of: drugs, sexual assult, threats, attacks , pornography of a minor and harassment. You know what they told me? To Get Over It. They told me if he comes on our property to shoot him other then that get over it. What the... they told us to go home and get over it. The police in the state of PA are so useless....waste of our tax payers money. I swear... No wonder there are so many murders and domestic abuse, they won't do squat or even care.

So my mom is going to the news reporters to investigate and bring awarness to this and help other women who need help like me and aren't getting any before it is to late. So we will see how it goes. Ugh, I so needed to rant today has been HORRIBLE. Issues with Ex wanting to hurt me again and my grandfather falling off tractor having altimer spells again... and doing damage to neighbors house...Its just been a LONG day!!

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PostSubject: Re: Police are so useless in the state of PA!!   Thu Apr 22, 2010 7:45 am

Who's threatening you?? People are allowed to threaten all sorts of things and nothing is done about it unless they act on those threats. You pretty much have to have proof of a crime before police get involved.
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PostSubject: Re: Police are so useless in the state of PA!!   Thu Apr 22, 2010 11:59 am

It was a bunch of things, harassment we wanted to file for its sad when an ex bf calls your mom 20 times, texts her 10+ times and texts ME 175 times. It was basically domestic abuse case and they do nothing!!

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PostSubject: Re: Police are so useless in the state of PA!!   Thu Apr 22, 2010 3:49 pm

Wow I'm sorry its this bad Carrie.... Why won't he leave you alone, after all he was the one that ended it....

I concur with Ann though, they probably won't act until you've got some sort of proof.

I hope that things work out, you've been having a pretty hard time this year.

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PostSubject: Re: Police are so useless in the state of PA!!   Thu Apr 22, 2010 4:27 pm

Yeah, it has been a horrible year. Its 4-5 months into it the year and I want it to END already.

So now dan is reporting me for something called "Obstruction of a character" whatever that is? My friend said its for interfering into his life. Its really sad that its this bad. He claimed to love me, he didn't. Hes out happy im still sad and crying. This is so old already.

Thing is, police say GET OVER IT, dont ask for proof, I have proof.

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PostSubject: Re: Police are so useless in the state of PA!!   Thu Apr 22, 2010 5:00 pm

Maybe call a different department?

Obstruction of Character...don't know much about that but I'm thinking if it does exist it has to do with infringing on rights which you most certainly are not. He's just crazy and wants attention the more you attention you give him the worse he'll get. So whenever possible ignore him (I know it won't be possible 100% of the time though).

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PostSubject: Re: Police are so useless in the state of PA!!   Fri Apr 23, 2010 10:31 am

Yeah, probably is fake to "scare" me.

Well not only that but i've got to deal with a pshyo mother who likes to "over-dramatize" everything. We are basically at each other throats (mainly because were ALWAYS together, and she never leaves the house on her own or hangs with her own friends, the only 2 she has that is.) Everything that happens, she stresses out to be twenty times worse then it is and like today she turned the graduation project that is due may 14th "life or death" situation if it isn't completed today. The minute Dan texts her she races to her phone and reads it, then yells at me, believing his lies and then asking a million questions and threating me with no FL if he continues. We have TRIED going to a pshycatrist but that is useless, it makes her come out 20 times madder/ meaner towards me then she already was. The pshycatrist even told her shes a drama queen and trives to live on that and the bad even if it is in the past. She is still thriving and greiving on what my aunt did to my grandparents that happened a year ago. My grandparents were hurt by what my aunt did to them worse then my mom but they since then let it go and she really should too. When the pshycatrist asks my mom why she acts this way my mom says stress from what my aunt has done to my grandparents. That is all I hear, its so old and used I don't want to even hear it again! Then the pshycatrist don't give her any advice just listens then tells us to reschedual and then my mom throws a fit in a car taking it out on me. I said im not even bothering to go back, it only makes her act worse. So we basically start fighting soon was we wake up. I try not to fight back but the stuff is so stupid and pointless I cannot hold back, I need to stand up for myself too.

Ugh, so frustrating. I cannot wait until I am moved out on my own, and I cannot wait for this FL trip. Away for 3 days, 2 nights.

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PostSubject: Re: Police are so useless in the state of PA!!   Fri Apr 23, 2010 2:32 pm

Hmm I see... Well sometimes the best is not to fight back, you almost never get anything good if you try to justify, explain, or argue in the 'heat of the moment' always best to cool down. However it would probably be good to get out more... Hang in there!

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PostSubject: Re: Police are so useless in the state of PA!!   Sun Apr 25, 2010 11:52 am

Oh sweetheart, the best thing to do is to politely ask him to stop texting you, and then ignore him. Do not give him the right time of day..you're too good for that. If he continues, it's harassment and you can sue him. If it's possible, block his number from your phones. If he's sending threatening text messages, SAVE THEM. Do not delete them, that's your evidence. Do not respond, either, And take a deep breath.. you need to cut all ties with him.

Your mom feels she knows best. Work on your project and agree with her, rather than fight. Just nod your head. Arguing with your parents gets you nowhere, and you'll realize that when you're older.

Good luck hun.
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PostSubject: Re: Police are so useless in the state of PA!!   Thu May 06, 2010 5:51 pm

some good advice mentioned above. your keep your chin up, try to take some of that advice, and good luck . *hugs*
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